Examples

Date Me Docs should not all sound the same.

Use these as starting points for structure, tone, and the kind of specific detail that makes someone want to act.

Riya sample Date Me Doc
Riya, 29

Intentional Dating sample

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Looking for

Something genuine, slow-built, and emotionally clear.

Best first date

Filter coffee, a bookshop walk, and one conversation that runs long.

Green flags

Consistency, curiosity, and kindness when nobody is watching.

What are you looking for?

A relationship with calm energy, real communication, and room for both ambition and softness.

What kind of person should reach out?

Someone thoughtful, emotionally available, and excited by ordinary days too.

BooksFilter CoffeeLong WalksDesignWeekend Trips
I'd like to meet
Know someone who might like me?
Kabir
Fun & Flirty
voicey promptseasy opener
Green flag: you can be silly without being careless.

Most defensible hot take?

Dessert is a valid dinner if the conversation is good enough.

Live MusicStreet FoodBad MoviesGames
Anika
Set Me Up
easy to forwardfriend-intro friendly

Forwarding note

If you know someone kind and grounded, send them this. A warm intro beats a cold swipe.

Who should a friend introduce?

Someone emotionally available, direct, and ready to meet with honest intentions.

Arjun
Long-Term / Marriage
values firstgood boundaries

Values that matter most

Kindness, loyalty, family, health, and building a life with intention.

Dealbreakers

Avoidance, disrespect, dishonesty, and not being clear about what you want.

FamilyHealthTravelBuilding Together
Maya
Open but Honest
clear expectationsgood boundaries

What does open mean?

No forced label immediately, but no mixed signals either. Clear, kind, direct.

Before reaching out

Be honest about what you want, communicate if plans change, and keep it respectful.